Loveable | A Memoir by Amber Rae

“Raw and liberating—the permission slip we all need.”

JILLIAN TURECKI

New York Times bestselling author
of It Begins With You

Coming August 2025

“Riveting.”

ALEX ELLE

New York Times bestselling author
of How to Heal

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About the book

good wives don't fall in love with other men

That’s what I told myself when, in the midst of building a home with my husband in Mexico, I met the man I knew I was meant to spend the rest of my life with.

Maybe in another life, I thought.

But the truth was, for years, I smiled and strived my way through a sexless and lonely marriage, never admitting my unhappiness to anyone―not even to myself. I thought that if I just tried harder, everything would fall into place.

But as the voice inside me grew louder, I realized I had two choices: keep pretending everything’s fine and my needs don’t matter, or confront everything I thought I knew about love, loyalty, and my own limits.

This memoir isn't about trading one life or one man for another―it’s about the painful, beautiful process of coming home to oneself.

And this isn't just my story. It's for anyone who’s ever found themselves in a cage of their own making—and for those who are ready to break free.

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Day 1: Listening Inward
Get still enough to hear what your inner voice has been trying to tell you.

Day 2: Self-Betrayal Check-In
Spot where you're abandoning yourself to keep others comfortable.

Day 3: Risky Truths
Name the truth you’ve been too afraid to say out loud—even to yourself.

Day 4: Fear's Story
Uncover the narrative fear keeps feeding you—and choose another path.

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What would it look like to stop swallowing your desires—and start living your truth?

In this intimate 90-minute session, the night before publication, I’ll take you behind the scenes of LOVEABLE— sharing the story of leaving my marriage, moving through shame & guilt, and how I rebuilt my life.

We’ll walk through the three-part structure of the memoir—Be Good, Be Brave, Be Free—with guided prompts, exercises, and optional sharing to help you tune into your truth and take your next brave step.

You’ll be held in a space of brave hearts and honest voices—a reminder that you’re not alone in your questions, longings, or becoming.

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BE GOOD – The rules, roles, and beliefs that keep you small

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BE FREE – How to start stepping into the life that’s meant for you

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A deeper understanding of where you’re stuck—and why
Tools to get honest with yourself (and stay that way)
A clearer connection to the life you actually want
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Praise for loveable

Some books you can’t put down because the story is that good. Others wake you up to the person you’re meant to become. This book accomplishes both.

TERRI COLE

Psychotherapist and author of Too Much

The permission slip we all need to shed the conditioning that keeps us stuck. Amber's words are as raw as they are liberating, showing us how to choose ourselves.

JILLIAN TURECKI

New York Times bestselling author of
It Begins With You

This book will captivate you from the very first page. You'll be left feeling seen, validated, and ready to step boldly into your most courageous life.

VIENNA PHARAON

National bestselling author of
The Origins of You

A riveting story. If you are looking for encouragement to change, love deeply, and choose emotional liberation, this book is for you.

ALEX ELLE

New York Times bestselling author of How We Heal

One of the most honest books I've ever read about learning to love yourself out loud. You won't be the same after you read it.

Yasmine Cheyenne

author of The Sugar Jar and Wisdom of the Path

Loveable isn’t just a memoir―it’s a mirror. It reflects the truths that so many of us are afraid to face and encourages us to embrace the messy, yet exquisite truth of who we are.

KRISTA WILLIAMS

author and host of Almost30

meet amber rae

Hey, I'm Amber Rae—an international bestselling author, speaker, and teacher best known for books Choose Wonder Over Worry and The Answers Are Within You. I’m also the creator of The Feelings Journal, a tool that transforms the way you engage with your emotions.

As a speaker and workshop leader, I've worked with brands such as Kate Spade, META, Microsoft, and TED. When I'm not writing or teaching, you’ll find me traveling and adventuring with the two loves of my life: my husband and son.

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